Hello beautiful Mothers! This is my first time writing a blog answering the prayers of other mom's and friends that keep asking me how do I keep up with my two children being a single Mom? Even mom's that are not single kept secretly asking me how to look fab while taking care of all of their children's needs and having a 20 year old single sexy looking lady life that they felt they lost after having children and only putting their kids priorities first.             

You may be wondering is this possible when you look at magazines of the typical sexy Mom looking like a Jollie with her kid and looking like a freaking model! Just showing off how well behaved and what a wonderful Mom-son, Mom-daughter relationship they have all smiles and laughs? Is this a joke to real 24/7 working Mom's all over the world? 

When you know in reality this pic up here is what you look like on a good day when your kid or kids are not throwing a tantrum or having fever! 

This is the reason why I wanted to write a blog to help mom's achieve their goals and give them tips that other cool mom's don't want to share about their routines, hair, make-up(there's time for that!?) yes ladies and even cute outfits that will make everyone on the block envy you in the coolest and nicest of ways. 

First we will talk about your body type and how a few details change everything! 

Of course trying to exercise and be a fit mom would help but if you are already stuck with your body type forever and you need to start somewhere to feel and look great! You can start by getting your motivation to go to the gym by looking and fitting amazing in your clothes. 

Look if you are like I was, I used to be wanting to feel comfy all day to manage the kids you are fooling yourself! With a few adjustments to your wardrobe you can be a super hot looking mamma! 

 My first tip would be about your jeans, even if in the 90's you thought low hip jeans were so f*ing hot thanks to teenage britney spears, it's time to adjust to your current status at least until you get back into the gym and hit those milestones. A great tip is the high waist jeans that are new and tight and don't look like your mom in the 80's gross! But this new style of jeans will help elongate your body and make you look tight in all the right curves and places making you look like a chic mom and not a lazy one. 

 Second tip never look like a potato sack, know where your waist is at all times if you want to hide your lower belly fat I recommend you wear a dark lower color and use underwear that is stretchy and holds tight that lower belly in place.  

 see where your eyes go to the one on the right looks way thinner and well put together, you don't want them thinking you are a "whatever" Mom. Now let me mention "The purse" yes we all make mistakes, you might find yourself with a huge ugly bag *cough* I mean purse? If you can call it that? That looks like a diaper bag! I recommend that you never make this mistake. Pleaaaaaase put the diaper bag where it belongs in the backseat or your trunk never carry it. Try to always bring a small useful purse so you feel prepared but you don't look like you've just given birth to a 3 year old! 

 get a useful black professional looking purse, this way your subconscious mind knows you won't have room to carry all the nasty chewed candy, parts of lost toys in your purse because they won't fit anyways. If you keep using big purses the kids will keep pouring in crap in your bag until you loose it and is not even organized and you feel like crying whenever you try to find your car keys! 

second always buy one or two feminine looking purses even if you are the sporty type of gal, this is because when we have kids other people your partner, husband or family members tend to think of us as only housewives and make us feel like we should be a though cookie at all times no rest for us from daily routine. This type of purse says I'm still alive, I'm here! I'm a woman and it works as an alert to everyone so they know they can't just abuse their power over you and you are a wonderful and gently being. 

 If you can't take that much of a cute looking purse you can always were something more elegant with a feminine touch not too big remember and try to use pastel colors or happy looking colors so it shows there's a wonderful woman that doesn't want to hide behind a diaper bag anymore and is ready to take on the world! 

 This is very important ladies! Always have a fancy wallet to keep organized so when you go out with your friends or you have to buy something other ladies can tell what you are made of and young single ladies can see themselves in you even if you are married with children or single with children you still keep that glare of fanciness and happiness to your personna and they will super like you and treat you with respect. If you don't you'll fall into the same old diaper bag trap where you can't find your credit card and everything seems loose and disgusting. 

Now this last tip applies to all Mom's because it's wonderful! It doesn't matter if you are going to wear a V neck or turtleneck, short or long sleeves. Remember how this makes you look if you wear the bottom of your dress or skirt loose it will make you seem careless it's all in the details, if you were that pencil looking skirt or dress below your knees you will look fit, well put together, elegant and ready for what's next!   

Now you can play with our kids and look the part! 

Don't forget to comment I will be working on my next blog Chic Mom Tips for my beautiful Mom's all over the world! It will be on how to make time to get organized for Exercising or even hitting the gym and getting over kids homework as quickly as possible.  There is also another blog coming out on what types of shoes to wear for each occasion so that you still look great but can play though with your kids. I hope you enjoyed this tips there are more coming your way, thanks for taking the time to read my new blog! I hope to hear from all of you soon!